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By 3 rd year in a child already fully formed skills in all areas: speech, motor, objective-practical, domestic and social. Not without reason the kid is already talking about myself in first person, I am! Therefore, the child tends demonstrate all these capabilities, strengthen and improve them. Hence the desire to do everything myself, insubordination, disobedience. Have understood it, the child develops the skills learned, he argues, asserts her positions, often stubborn, with enviable patience and perseverance begging for what he wants! In order to cope with the situation, parents need to remember the features of this period, to understand that they are associated with should show the child sample calm and dignified behavior! If you forbid something, do it strongly and firmly, without unnecessary emotions, not reacting to the possible cries of the baby. Once he got used to that method tantrums are not my mother, he will cease to apply. always explain the reason for their ban quietly and sternly.

The kid has to see that you’re a dialogue with him, and not left alone with their feelings. Ban something must be permanent, you can not use the principle of today can and can not be tomorrow or the child learns that your inhibitions are unfounded and frivolous, they should not pay attention and will play on your mood. Do not let the child’s personality assessment (you are bad, you’re stupid, you’re sloppy), and certainly not call the baby (you’re a slut, a bully, etc.), assessment can be given only action baby (you’re good, but made bad!) with a child can and should be share their feelings, including feelings, which makes you his behavior, but it does not go to the individual, for example: instead of saying “you have disappointed me,” tell “your actions have provoked me, I am very upset and angry! ” Do not forbid your child everything! Give him an opportunity, within reasonable limits, use their power to spend your energy and explore the world, just keep it under control. Themselves offer him interesting joint sessions. Use in the process of education toys. Involve them in the daily life of a baby, and it will be easier to interact with rebenkom.Rebenok at this age have already committed to Interaction with peers in joint games, socializing. At this stage it is important for adults to teach the kid to be friends (to share a toy, observe the rule of mutual concessions and priority at the time of playing together, observe rules of mutual assistance and courtesy).

A whole year of free, quality, cultural and leisure activities are not very! Who will refuse from this? And if you play a winter wedding? Choose best gifts for winter holidays. To the pair was not bored in the winter, give them two pairs of skates and two pairs of skis, and snoutyub snegokat. Congratulations to you! These young will fight just once, they will be full of other interesting classes at weekends (although winter bed and board games are also still relevant). In the spring of beriberi in people, the thirst for warmth and light, preparing to fly. It is therefore quite relevant this gift set: a subscription to the solarium + subscription to the gym + home bike + subscription to the journal type Shape for the year ahead + playful slogan "A healthy body – healthy mind". " Health and beauty with such gifts will remain in the family for a long time! And the last one in article, but not the latter, in principle – the brightest and most immaterial variant.

Give events and experiences! One of them had already been announced – a journey. And it could be a joint parachute jump, horse riding, diving, helicopter flight, etc. But If the same from you still waiting for the infamous envelope, and no planetarium newlyweds' gift is not needed? Anyway there are lots of ways to celebrate their indifferent attitude! Woman-needlewoman can embroider or sew a wedding metric family quilt. By the envelope can be added and a diploma from the description of the meaning and history of surnames, which has now become common for two people. Or simply write funny interesting wall newspaper on any family theme: from the illustrations of jokes photos spouses pair to an ironic collection of recipes for marital happiness. It is important first of all man-made and fantasy! Not afraid to depart from the conventional patterns and do not think that young so need a couple of duvet cover and pillowcases. First of all, they need things and events that will decorate their lives and make it interesting. However, if very much want, you can come up with particularly beautiful pillow

* You must behave as though you are surrounded by important people for you and they look at you. In some families, the spouses have agreed in a conflict situation when is about to pour abuse opposing the warning of another and includes a tape recorder: everything that is said to remain on the film. * How much vocabulary is correct! There are other means. For example, – Chinese revenge. There is a story about how an evil Chinese feudal deprived of a poor peasant in the home and property, and family. Then the farmer went and avenged lord – hanged himself in front of his window. * The place I think is one of the most foolish and harmful superstitions, but in a good family option "Chinese revenge" is very out of place. For example, the wife is reading in the dark, and so spoil his poor eyesight (in this case agrees that it is wrong, but over and over again ) – well, I depriving reading itself.

For me it is – the flour. Or: Schur hit a a bike, it hurts her, she yells at him ("Why do not you look ), beats words. I want to hit her. It is impossible, but how to stop it? For each of its hit Shurik was strongly beat (really hard!) on the arm itself Had its effect, stopped. – Interruption of relations up to the total disregard of another. Termination of the relationship does not mean that they break, are always possible negotiations. Relations can be resumed at any time, as soon as the other spouse will stop conflict behavior and begin to live with respect for others. Naturally, the children of a broken relationship should not suffer.

In this part of the relationship is not interrupted, but only reduced to a purely formal and collaborative at the level of impersonal cooperation. She was the favorite, but was simply a woman with whom I, like anyone, just polite, but do not show her any interest or warmth. Love – turn off. * To have good relations under heavy guard, should be able to sometimes not like a loved one. – Demonstrative mirror. After warning his start acting the same methods, while offering at the same time to stop an outrage – one. Means effective, but dangerous! Problematic behavior and forms of protest against the conflict – is a complex and big topic, and to thoroughly understand it, of course, is not enough just reading books. Especially for those who want to learn to live without conflict and brilliantly cope with any complex issues of communication in the heart of practical psychology, "Sinton" We have created a wonderful course – Basic training: skill of communication. "